working girl.

as of today, i am officially back in the working world. this morning i actually had to SET MY ALARM (le gasp!), something that i’ve done maybe a dozen times since august of last year. yeah yeah, i know, poor me, living a charmed life. the only downside to not having to set your alarm is not having a regular paycheck. if i could figure out a way to get a regular paycheck without having to set my alarm, i’d be golden.

the thing that sucks about having to go to a job in the morning though, is that i’m generally not hungry right when i wake up, getting hungry about 1-2 hours later. so this morning before i left for work, i was trying to decide if i should eat something even though i wasn’t hungry in the slightest. i then told my roommate, “you know, i think it should be a requirement that all companies give you breakfast and lunch on your first day at a new job.” and lo and behold! fresh coffee, juice, fruit and pastries awaited us when we went to the training room! and then, sandwiches, pasta salad and chips provided for lunch! woo-hoo! i’m pretty sure that they won’t be doing that every day, but still, it was a nice gesture on a first day at a new job. also, the company provides free (good) coffee (not that vending machine crap), tea and hot chocolate for all employees, which is nice.

i don’t want to blog too much about my job, lest i get “dooced,” so i won’t go into specifics about it. but specifics aside, the people that i’m working with are all very nice, and seem like a good group of people to be on a team with. the manager of the department that i’ll be working in is, in a word, awesome. she’s friendly, very open in regards to her personal communication policy (which is very important to me), yet she’s diplomatic and fair. granted, i’ve only known her for one full day, but we discussed some touchy issues today in training, and she handled them gracefully. i think i’ll be quite content to work for her. as i’ve discovered in previous jobs, the people who are directly supervising you can have a large, direct impact on your personal enjoyment of the job.

at any rate, that’s about it for today. i’m brewing up another (more serious) post, but i have to ruminate on that one before i post.  (in other words, WATCH OUT! POSSIBLE DRUNKEN BLOGRAMBLINGS!)

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review: yann tiersen at logan square auditorium, chicago, illinois.

if you’ve seen the movie “amélie” then you’ve heard his music. he set the tone of the film with his original compositions, some of them complex pieces with multiple instruments and melodies, and several of them solo piano pieces. i’m not exactly sure what it is about his music, but for me, it has the power to greatly lift my mood, almost exponentially. the best way that i know how to put it into words, is that (please pardon the cheese factor) it makes my heart “happy.”

so, when i heard that yann tiersen had several tour dates in the US, i was disappointed, but not that surprised, when i saw that he wasn’t coming to cincinnati. and even though he was going to chicago, it was on a tuesday night, and i’d most certainly have started my job by then, right?

not so much. after having the start date of my job pushed back (again) until april 27th, i realized that i could now go to see him in chicago! this past sunday, i called dug up to see if he wanted to see mr. tiersen (he’s a fan as well), and if not, then would he mind if i crashed at his house so I could go? (i should mention that if i thought he might mind, i never would have asked.) and when i told him about it and that i intended on going, he decided to go as well.

so yesterday, i drove 5 hours up to chicago in all of the crappy rainy weather, had dinner with dug, his wife, and another couple that we’re friends with, at a wonderful indian restaurant down the street, and afterwards, dug and i jetted off to the concert.

before dinner, dug had read that (yann? mr. tiersen? i have no idea what to call him, except i don’t want to keep saying “yann tiersen” every time i reference him. he is YT from now on) was branching out from his classical compositions into more guitar-based rock. he looked at me and said, “okay, now i have no idea what to expect.” and of course, neither did i.

we thought there might be a piano or keyboard somewhere on stage where he might rock out some of his piano pieces, but after the opening act and during the set change, no keyboards or pianos made an appearance. thoroughly confused now, we waited for him to come onstage, just to see what we’d gotten ourselves into.

holy shit.

i mean, i figured that ANY music that he composed would be good; he’s an extremely talented musician. but the concert that we got far exceeded any speculations that either of us might have had.

anyway, here are a few photos from the show (taken with my trusty phone):

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i’m pretty sure that he’s looking directly at my camera in this one. and yes, that is a “my bloody valentine” t-shirt he’s wearing:

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he played the violin for us as well. i’m guessing that he brings along enough bows for his tour, because having to replace the shredded violin bow hair after each show would probably be time-consuming.

i would like to state, for the record, that YT and his entire band are incredibly hot, and talented. (wait…if i say “talented” first and then “hot,” does that make me sound less shallow? no? oh well. i should mention here that i find a man who really knows how to play the violin a complete turn-on. strange, i know, but very true. so in my defense, the “talent” and “hot” factor sort of go hand-in-hand for me.)

here’s a photo taken when he first picked up the violin:

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and this was after he’d been playing for awhile, and pretty furiously at that, evidenced by the fact that his hand and the bow are a complete blur:

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(i promise, there were other members of the band; five of them, in fact. i got distracted by the YT directly in front of me that i sort of forgot about the others. oops.)

the music was, in a word, amazing. we probably weren’t in the best position to hear the music clearly (we were in what dug called “monitorland”), but what music we DID hear was beautifully and melodically constructed, whether it was fast or slow, instrumental or with vocals.

while dug went on the (third? fourth?) beer run, he stopped by the merch booth to see if he could get a CD with this music on it, and unfortunately, it does not exist…yet. the person manning the merch booth asked dug what he thought of the music, and dug told him that he really liked it. Merch Booth Guy told him he was just curious because, apparently there had been some people who showed up, and when they realized that it wasn’t his usual compositions, they were disappointed and left. and they completely missed out.

after every song, the entire audience (minus the losers that didn’t stick around) cheered wildly, and a few of those times, YT grinned somewhat sheepishly at the audience, almost as if he couldn’t believe the reception that he was getting with the music he was playing. you can’t deny musical genius, folks.

so in summary, we heard some amazing music from an amazing musician that hasn’t even been recorded yet. i, for one, will be pre-ordering yann tiersen’s next album.

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bizzy as a bee.

surprisingly, even though i’m mostly unemployed (by that i mean that i have a job, i just haven’t started it yet), i have still managed to keep myself busy with all sorts of fun (and cheap!) stuff.

a couple weekends ago, kate and i went to visit our friend sarah (who is dating a woman named sarah…they are collectively known as “the sarahs”) for dinner. they are currently expecting their first child, which is both awesome and exciting, and i couldn’t be happier for them. i know they will be great moms to their little hepzibah or methuselah. (because of course they will give them awkward biblical names.)

afterwards, kate and i went down for the second Cincinnati Guerilla Queer Bar, which took place at sully’s sports bar downtown. the thing that i like about this movement-that-is-also-an-excellent-excuse-to-drink, is that there are so many different kinds of people that come out for this event. unlike a regular queer bar, which sometimes seems like it’s as much a meat market as any straight bar, the CGQB draws a pretty diverse crowd, from singles to couples, gays to straights, white to black, and everything in between. and everyone is there for a common purpose; most decidedly NOT to find someone to take home that night. okay, maybe some people were there for that reason. unfortunately, all of the people I was looking at were gay, including the founder of CGQB, ethan philbrick, who is so friggin’ cute i could put him in my pocket. if, you know, i had 6+ foot tall pockets.

the next day, kate and i headed to findlay market for a bite to eat and some grocery shopping while jenn was at work.  that night, the three of us headed down to fountain square to watch mayor mallory turn on the genius of water, replete with rozzi’s fireworks and live music, and when we went to graeter’s afterwards, who should we run into but ethan philbrick (and friends)! he told us that we missed the “same sex kiss-in” that happened at the fountain right afterwards, but since i didn’t have had anyone to kiss, same-sex or otherwise, i wasn’t too bothered by the fact that i missed it.

the next morning, my friend brian invited me to go see “the foreigner” at playhouse in the park. i had wanted to see it because of its premise (a shy englishman pretends to not speak english so he won’t have to talk to the people of the small town in georgia where he’s staying). it sounded like it would be a shenanigan-filled comedy, and i was glad to discover that i was right! parts of the play had me crying with laughter…i would highly recommend it to anyone.

this past weekend started early for me…thursday night, i went to see “vigils” at the know theater with jenn and kate (jenn had scored some free tickets), and while i thought it was good and well-acted, i began to get antsy during the last half hour of the show. had there been an intermission, i doubt that would have happened, but apparently they decided not to have an intermission for this particular performance.

after “vigils,” the three of us headed down to southgate house to see several bands, but mostly jupiter one, a band from NYC that jenn knew, as her friend is roommates with one of the band members. i have to say that they put on an awesome live show. in my experience, sometimes a band can sound awesome on an album, but then really suck as a live act. i’m glad to say that jupiter one does not disappoint, either as a live act or on their album. at the end of their set, the lead singer mentioned that they needed somewhere to crash that night, and since jenn and kate have a huge apartment with a virtually empty finished attic/top floor, they invited the band to stay at their place. i generally crash at jenn and kate’s over the weekend, so that was how the three of us ended up having a sleepover with an entire band. (trust me, it sounds a lot more scandalous than it actually was.)

[NOTE: being friends with jenn is beneficial if you want to get more involved in the arts and music community in cincinnati. free tickets! band sleepovers!]

friday night, we headed down to cincy punkfest at southgate house, and although i’m not a huge punk fan – that’s more kate’s territory – the seedy seeds were playing. and thank god they were playing in the ballroom this year (last year, they played in the lounge, and we all ended up drenched in sweat it was so stiflingly hot).  the music festival was having a silent auction to benefit a no-kill animal shelter, and one of the items up for bid was a picnic for 3 people with the seedy seeds at a local park, with food provided and the band playing a song of the winners’ choosing. someone had bid $40 on the picnic, and jenn pulled “price is right” and bid $41. and won! so on may 17th (i think), kate and jenn and i will be hanging out with mike and meg and their new drummer, brian. and i am happy. now, to choose a song….

just listing everything i’ve done in the last couple weeks makes me exhausted just thinking about it. but i suppose that i should enjoy my time off…unfortunately my new job got pushed back to april 27th, but if everything that the hiring manager told me is true, i’ll likely have to “hit the ground running” and will probably be working 50-60 hours a week. i am certainly NOT complaining about overtime. seeing as i’m generally used to working 2 jobs at a time, 50-60 hours a week isn’t really that big of a deal. i’d rather be making time and a half on all of those hours-past-40 that i’m working anyway.

the only thing that i think might suck about this new job will be finding time to take off of work. i was hoping to take some time off later this year to go back to the UK and visit old and new friends, but before i can make any definite plans, i need to determine the scope of this new job and whether or not it will be feasible. if not, it may have to wait until next year. :(

oy. i had hoped to blog about something more substantial than my activities over the last few weeks, with a bit more insight into a particular event, rather than listing the events themselves. but i suppose the “insight” part of blogging might have to wait until a later post.

for now, i leave you with my favorite easter ecard from someecards.com:

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progress….

today i was filling out an online survey (the kind that pays you) (hey, i gotta do SOMETHING to earn money, right?), and one of the questions was asking where i purchase body care products. two of the options were:

  • Walmart
  • Other mass merchandiser such as Target or Kmart (excluding Walmart)

which: AWESOME. apparently enough people (that shop at mass merchandisers that AREN’T walmart) complained that the survey creators added a new options for us walmart-haters.

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plus de bébés!

okay, i may be changing my stance on babies, more specifically, on whether or not i want to have any.

so far, i will be having a french speaking baby. next, i will be having a japanese baby. (which makes much more sense, given that i’m half-japanese.)

essentially, i’m probably going to have to marry a french-japanese man. and that’s not a tall order at ALL.

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i watch “the l word”…on mute.

heh…okay, so i totally stole that line from “house”…i love that show. but i think my lust for hugh laurie is pretty evident if you know me well enough. [editor's note in retrospect: to clarify, i don't really watch "the l word" on mute]

anyway. i went over to my friends’ house tonight to celebrate me getting 3 job offers within 3 (business) days, a feat that i can pretty much guarantee will never ever happen again in my lifetime. and in this economy, i am counting my lucky fucking stars, let me tell you.

so they ordered a couple pizzas and had a couple of really great bottles of red wine. (mmmm, wine) and we watched “the l word.”

to explain, my friends are lesbians. and because there is a dearth of lesbian-centered television shows, they watched the lesbian soap opera that is “the l word.” and because one of said friends was my former roommate before the Scotland Move, i got sucked into the show as well.

  • *spoiler alert!!! stop reading if you watch “the l word”!!!**

so…jenny dies at the beginning of the season – something that i have to honestly say that i’m not that upset about. her character is a complete manipulative bitch. i hate her. A LOT. the rest of the season is flashbacks showing how all of the characters have a reason to kill her. (hell, if i were a writer on the show, I would have a reason to kill her, and she’s a fictional character.) but i digress.

something that i found in watching the show is that elizabeth berkeley, one of the worst actresses on television, movies, stage, WHATEVER, has now added her crappy acting skills to the ensemble cast of “the l word”. (you may recognize her from such television greats like “saved by the bell” or such classic films as “showgirls”.) bleh. pretty much anything that i’ve ever seen her in, i’ve desperately wanted for someone to invent the ability to reach through the screen solely so i could punch her in the neck.

terrible, terrible acting.

i mean, even though “the l word” is not really that great of a show (a crappy soap opera, even with lesbians, is still a crappy soap opera), it’s just plummeted the depths of television by adding elizabeth berkeley to the mix. it’s possible that it may be worse than a reality television show. possibly. okay, maybe not, but it’s close.

i am firmly convinced that not ONE GOOD ACTOR ever came out of “saved by the bell.” if someone can prove me wrong, i will gladly eat my words. i’m honestly surprised that our girl berkeley even has a JOB. blech.

also, i’m drunk. (what is it with me and blogging while i’m drunk???) but even so, my opinion is the same, whether i’m sober or not.

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promptuesday: pieces of me.

because i haven’t done one in awhile, and also because i need to post something to stay writing, and also because this week’s promptuesday is so interesting, i’ve decided to take it on:

So, this week, let’s look in our purses and billfolds, poppets. Pull something out. Tell a story about that something. Where did it come from? Why do you carry it? What does it mean to you, if anything? (And just so you know, tampons (unsullied) totally count.)

Also, for the record, you can make something up about the item in your purse or wallet. In, fact, we encourage avoidance of reality here at PROMPTuesday.

and, luckily, i did NOT pull out a tampon. in fact, i pulled out the biggest item in my purse right now…paperwork for a pee test.

this morning, i was offered a job with the international company i mentioned in my previous post (my third job offer – yay me!), and i accepted their offer conditional on the fact that i pass the drug test and background check (with which i should have no problem). even though it pays the least of the three jobs initially, it pays the most after 90 days and offers the most opportunities for growth and experience. in addition, the benefits are great (401k is 150% on 6%!), and the woman that i interviewed with in the second interview would be my manager, and she seemed like someone that i would really enjoy working with/for.

at any rate, the paperwork in my purse signifies well…having to pee in a cup. yey. but it also signifies a new job, a new start, and a step on the path that i want to go in my career, meaning: a position at a large international company with job growth potential and the opportunity to travel and learn about life and work in other cultures.

while part of me really wants to hate corporate america, i am equally fascinated by it. i read magazines, blogs, the business section of newspapers, and books on globalization and the large role that major companies play in that process. i find the prospect of being involved in that process incredibly exciting.

here’s to new beginnings. :)

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